To upload pics you must log in and hover your mouse over "Pics" or "My Profile" on the main menu and choose "Upload Pics".

To send a member a friend request navigate to the member's profile and click the "Send Friend Request" link located on the menu directly under their profile image. A small box will pop up giving you the opportunity to send a short message along with your friend request. Sending a message along with your request is optional, but could possibly help break the ice. Once you are ready to send your request click the "Send Request" button at the bottom of the box.

There are several ways to change your profile image.

Method #1: Navigate to your own profile page by clicking the "My Profile" link on the main menu above, click the "Change Profile Image" button on the menu below the profile image on your page.

Method #2: Hover over the "My Profile" button located on the main menu at the top of this page until a drop down menu appears. Click the "Edit Profile" button and choose the "Profile Image" tab.

TIP: Be sure your profile image meets the profile image guidelines in the site's Terms of Service.

To update the "My Details" tab on your profile, hover your mouse over the "My Profile" button on the main menu, and click "Edit Profile". Choose the "My Details" tab and fill in the appropriate information. Once done be sure to click the "Update" button at the bottom.

If your account has been suspended, first don't worry. Your profile still exists and will be un-suspended and viewable once your account is in compliance with the sites Terms of Service. The reason your account was suspended will be listed at the top of your profile page in red. Once you follow the instructions in the message click the un-suspend profile request link located below your profile image on your profile page.

Please allow some time for the moderators to un-suspend your profile. If your profile is NOT un-suspended with 48 hours please contact support@hardhornyme.com.

Your account will be deleted if you do not bring it into compliance with the sites Terms of Service within 14 days of the date of suspension. We apologize for any inconvenience, but we would like to make HHM as enjoyable for as many people as possible.

Yes, you can stop any member from sending you messages. To stop their messages, just click the "block" link found in the upper right of a message they sent you. To unblock a member and resume recieving messages from them again hover over "My Inbox" on the main menu and choose "Settings", then click "unblock" next to their username.

TIP: If a member is being harrassing, threatening, or otherwise making your experience here an unpleasant one, please contact support@hardhornyme.com with your and their username. We take these matters seriously.

To send a message to another member, navigate to their profile and click the "Send Message" link below their profile image.

There are three methods of adding / denying friend requests.

Method 1: This is the simplest. Once you log in you will see a notification of any friend requests on the log in module on the home page. Click where it says "You have X friend requests". This will take you to your friend request tab. Check the box with the green plus underneath the requesting members image to accept the request or click the red minus to deny them. Remember to click the update button when you are finished.

Method 2: Navigate to your profile and click the "Edit Friends" link below your profile image. Then click the tab marked "Friend Requests". Check the box with the green plus underneath the requesting members image to accept the request or click the red minus to deny them. Remember to click the update button when you are finished.

Method 3: Navigate to your profile and scroll down to your "Friends" section. Any friend requests will have a green plus &  a red minus above their pic. Click the green plus to accept the request or click the red minus to deny them.

TIP: Members are not notified of a denied friend request.

To change your password hover your mouse over the "My Profile" link on the main menu. Choose "Edit Profile" and click the "Password and Contact Settings" tab. Input the new password you wish to use in both boxes and click update at the bottom.  Your new password will be active the next time you log in.

To delete your account... 1. Log In 2. Locate the "MyAccount" Tab located on the right hand side of the screen (where you see new messages & friend requests). Click the tab and then click "Delete My Account".